Salvation Army Program Gives Fathers Space to Support One Another
Fatherhood can be one of the most rewarding experiences in a man’s life. Some describe it as an unmatched feeling. But with that transition also come changes and some new dads, especially younger ones, feel isolated.
At The Salvation Army’s Grace Haven in Hamilton, Ont., a program called “Dads Connect” gives fathers opportunities to build friendships, share experiences and access assistance.
“I work with dads by providing them with emotional support, counselling and referrals to services that could help them on their journey as fathers,” says Lisa Leveille, young parent community support worker.
While one-on-one guidance is available, Dads Connect was created as a peer support group where parents navigate personal challenges together.
“I work with dads by providing them with emotional support, counselling and referrals to services that could help them on their journey as fathers.”
“Dads get together and share their stories,” Lisa adds. “A lot of young fathers don’t usually know others who may be going through a similar journey.”
Many dads may not feel comfortable seeking advice. Group sessions help participants overcome that.
“I’ve had a couple of clients tell me there’s a stigma among men in particular, with opening up and talking to others,” Lisa says. “So, we are trying to break through that barrier to have these participants talk openly and share their struggles with the others.”
While that hesitation can sometimes make it challenging for guests to engage in a group setting rather than one-on-one, those who have decided to take the leap often find comfort in talking to someone who understands their experiences.
“When they realize other dads are going through similar situations, that is usually when they feel the need to connect and take part in peer support,” Lisa shares.
“Our main goal is to encourage them to do the things they enjoy for their self-care. This helps their mental well-being.”
The Salvation Army offers many parenting support programs, but Lisa says participants are predominantly mothers. This highlights the importance of creating a space specifically for fathers.
Looking ahead, Grace Haven is launching a new initiative called “Super Dad, Super Kids”, which will expand programming by providing parenting classes.
Dads Connect reminds fathers that they are not alone.
“Sometimes they tend to lose themselves once they get into a fatherhood role. Their focus is solely on their child and partner,” Lisa says. “Our main goal is to encourage them to do the things they enjoy for their self-care. This helps their mental well-being.”
By Juan Romero
