The Family I Never Had
When Tracy arrived in Vernon, B.C., she couldn’t see past her pain and just wanted it to stop. In her mind, suicide seemed to be the only way out. Overwhelmed by hopelessness, she needed people who cared about her. Little did she know that would be The Salvation Army.
In 2015, Tracy left her marriage. “Living in an unhealthy marriage was difficult and I wanted to find happiness again,” says Tracy. She moved to Vernon where family could support her while she sorted out her emotions.
“Living in an unhealthy marriage was difficult and I wanted to find happiness again.”
After only three months, Tracy felt that living with family was causing too much stress and anxiety so she removed herself from the situation. She didn’t know where she would go or what she would do, but she knew her situation had to change or suicide was inevitable. She had no choice but to sell everything she owned from her previous three-bedroom home. When she could no longer afford to buy food or keep her vehicle, she sold her car to help survive.
For the next seven months, Tracy lived out of a suitcase and stayed with other family and friends―wherever she could land for a while.
“When I came to The Salvation Army I felt connected.”
“It was very depressing to not have a home or the support I so desperately needed,” says Tracy.
Tracy then moved to Victoria for two years where she enrolled in self-help courses and received counselling. But the loneliness never went away. She moved back to Vernon to be with her grandchildren who always brightened her life.
One day, at the end of her rope, Tracy walked into The Salvation Army, depressed, anxious and suicidal, seeking help.
At The Salvation Army Tracy received counselling and was directed to housing support services. Before long she began to volunteer with the Army’s meal program and food bank. It was through volunteering that she learned of the Breakthrough Program.
“Women who attend the program are dealing with feelings of isolation and lack of support,” says Jenn Thompson, Program Coordinator. “We provide a safe environment where participants build relationships, learn life skills and improve their self-esteem.”
Breakthrough sessions include forgiveness, healthy boundaries and relationships, self-esteem and conflict resolution. Participants engage in activities such as art days, cooking and movie days. The goal is that women find a place of belonging, friendship and support.
“The Salvation Army is the family I never had.”
“When I came to The Salvation Army I felt connected,” says Tracy. “The Salvation Army is the family I never had, the one I always wished for.”
Fast forward to today, Tracy works for The Salvation Army Thrift Store as a cashier, helping with the organization of the store, as well as customer service. She has her own apartment and volunteers to help others in need when she is able.
Without the generosity of donors like you, Tracy, and others like her, would not have access to life changing programs like The Breakthrough Program. Thank you for giving hope today .. and every day.
