Salvation Army Helps Family to Start Fresh

Over the past few years, Megan has faced challenging battles, trying to provide a roof and necessities for her four children. In 2020, Megan and her children had to flee their home, escaping severe domestic abuse. They were forced to live in different motels, as shelters could not facilitate some of her mobility requirements due to medical issues.

“It was a difficult time. We had no permanent address. None of the places that we stayed at had kitchenettes or anything like that, so we had no way of cooking any food,” Megan recalls.

Although they were struggling, Megan always kept a brave face for her children. While they moved from motel to motel, she always made it fun for the children by pretending they were on vacation.

As the lack of food and housing became a problem, Megan wrote a post on Facebook explaining her situation and asking about any programs that could help her family. Lieutenant Allison Schizkoske from The Salvation Army in Bowmanville, Ont., saw her post and decided to help.

“She messaged me and explained who she was and said The Salvation Army would love to help. When that happened, everything changed. Honestly, they helped us so much,” Megan says.

The family initially received food assistance. In a way, The Salvation Army brought the food bank to them. Without a car, Megan had no way to get to Bowmanville. The Army’s staff loaded a truck with food and snacks for the family. Megan was also gifted a microwave and additional items for her children.

“They gave us the ability to cook with the microwave, brought gifts for the children and provided much-needed clothing.”

As she connected with The Salvation Army, they started focusing on finding stable housing.

“They also helped me to find programs and people that could guide me in the right direction to try and get ourselves into an actual home,” Megan adds.

After they found a place to live, The Salvation Army was once again there for the family to ensure they got everything they needed.

“When we did get a home, Allison and her team took a Salvation Army vehicle, and they delivered beds and furniture,” Megan says.

As Megan’s situation improved, her connection with the Army grew. The family has received Christmas hampers, and they currently access the food bank, which helps Megan with her monthly budget.

“It helps to clear up some things that I would normally buy and gives us that little bit extra for treats for the children,” Megan says.

She also finds a safe space within The Salvation Army. Megan feels comfortable talking to staff whenever she feels emotionally or mentally exhausted.

“I have learned so much from them mentally, emotionally and spiritually, and that is priceless,” she shares.

Megan believes the help they received was crucial for their survival.

“I don’t know where I would have been or what would have happened to us, had I not received the help,” Megan says.

Although the family still struggles financially and with the emotional wounds of domestic violence, Megan is thankful to The Salvation Army for their continued support. As a way to give back, Megan volunteers at the Bowmanville Salvation Army whenever she can.

“I’m very grateful for where I am. I know I still need help, but I am far better from where I was,” she says.

“I feel beyond lucky to have been blessed with Lieutenant Allison, Tammy, Darlene and all the amazing volunteers at The Salvation Army who work tirelessly toward helping every single person they can.”

By Juan Romero